Why I want a no-calls business (and why you need to take your resentment seriously)
….And retire by 32.
Hey u sexy angel
I got a few DMs yesterday asking about my new 1:1 offer—which is gonna be full message-based coaching. No calls. Just strategy, realignment, and momentum through written mentorship.
And honestly? It’s the most potent work I’ve ever done.
I did it last year. Loved it. Clients made more money than they ever did on weekly calls.
Because …
You have to take your anger / guilt / resentment seriously. Because they are brilliant to reveal what you actually fucking what. And that’s sacred.
That pre-call anxiety….
That tight chest before Zoom…
That mini tantrum you throw in your head before every scheduled session?
It’s not immaturity. It’s intelligence.
Anger, guilt, resentment—they’re brilliant. They reveal what you actually want. What no longer fits. What your nervous system is screaming to be done with.
One of my subs said: “Your last substack post i just read really resonated with me. I realized early on I would over deliver if i signed a student in b/c of the guilt etc.. but i think there's even more digging i need to do to unpack what lowkey blockages i have.”
If you want to throw your laptop out the window every time you see a call on your calendar…Well: You probably shouldn’t be taking calls.
And that’s not a problem to solve. That’s a preference to honor.
Like there are actually no rules.
I don’t need the back-to-back coaching calls to build someones momentum.
I have bursts of energy and ideas I implement wildly and randomly - sometimes when I ride my motorbike. I live an unusual life. And for a long time I thought I had to hide that life I’ve built for myself. But that’s just exhausting because it blocks me from celebrating something I’ve worked extremly hard to buils for myself. I always say… COMFORT IS EFFORT. Do you know how much work & reprogramming you need to work on yourself to allow your neevous system to receive?
Do you know how deeply you have to center back into your conviction to actually live your own desires?
How FUCKING HONEST you have to get with yourself to allow the right people in?
How much emotional work it takes to actually lead YOURSELF WELL. The person who currently leads me is someone who is audacious, courageous AF but she’s sometimes too head on & needs to recenter herself with the things she actually desires.
When I say lead myself well, I mean aligning my actions with my desires. This means facing those limiting patterns that scream "you can't do this!" head-on. Like building a 30K business without calls or 1:1s - I want to automate, have off-seasons, do sports, go hiking.
It comes down to practical questions: How do these business seasons look? What should I charge? What clients can pay premium rates? What's their ROI? The beautiful thing is - it's all achievable. I've done it before. The main work is in my emails - I pour energy into refining them because they sell for me.
The real work isn't getting clients to sign. When you want to scale a well-functioning business, you've got to keep realigning your thoughts with your vision.
So why a no-calls business?
Because I don’t perform better on camera.
Because I make more money when I’m in flow.
Because I’ve worked so hard to build a life I love—and I won’t compromise it for the sake of looking “professional.”
And most of all—because the people I work with?
They don’t need hand-holding.
They need strategy. Precision. The right idea at the right time that changes the trajectory of their entire business.
You don’t need to “show up more.” You need to show up deeper.
The real work isn’t getting clients to sign.
It’s aligning your own nervous system with your desires.
That’s why I take resentment seriously. Because when you follow the feeling of “man I hate this”—you find the answers for the thing you’d actually love doing.
Look the people who I guide & work alongside with are people in their early 40, spiritually ambitious people who LOVE what they do but they want to explore different ways of working with their clients. And although they cognitvely KNOW what they want…they struggle to actually implement it. Partially cause they can’t see themselves in that vision or cause days pass and they’re boots in the trenches…. Hustling with 15 clients.
So before it gets more scaleable… it gets uncomfortable because you have to confront the thoughts that want to sidetrack you + rip you back into the old ways of doing business.
And that’s also why I’m working with more energetics stuff. The stuff you can’t see but the reason why people gravitate towards you.
If your offer is leaking energy, if you love your clients but secretly resent them…
Something in the container needs to shift.
Maybe it’s pricing.
Maybe it’s the level of access.
Maybe it’s the entire structure.
But I promise you: your emotions will tell you everything you need to know—if you’re willing to listen.
I want to coach you for 8 weeks. No hand holding. More time to actually inject their businesses with the right ideas and strategies that change the entire trajectory of their business.
No calls. Powerful guidance. Just written strategy, powerful recalibrations, and building a client business that finally feels like fucking good? Like it can’t be that fucking hard?
Because once you align your work to your energy—selling becomes simple. Scaling becomes obvious.
And recurring revenue starts stacking itself.
This is the work inside Eat Your Hot Authority.
And it works.
Because it’s not about “doing less.” If your soul yearns to do something different. You just do it. In this life you can just do whatever you want and if you’re competent enough you’ll never be down bad.
The only way being down bad comes about is if you spiritually and mentally cannot move forward because of a visceral adverse reaction to what you’re doing in your day to day life.
If you want to make a million + retire at 32 do it.
Calculate how much money you need to retire.
Then do that.
Most of us want to retire because we crave safety.
Safety in what we need. But really its not about that. Its about actually living life that already feels like you can live your fucking retirement NOW!
It’s about building something that doesn’t drain the life out of you to maintain. If you want it to feel like retirement while you’re still building?
This is where we start.
SLIDE INTO MY DMS ON LINKEDIN.
I have something I want to offer you.
Stéphanie